It’s not uncommon for your sex life to become stale every now and then, the same routines can get a little boring and in this post I have collaborated with Lovehoney to give you tips and ideas on how you can spice up your relationship!
1. 12 days of Sexploration.
Add adventure to your sex life with this sexploration kit, similar to an advent calendar there are 12 doors, behind each a toy or accessory designed to add variety to your bedroom antics. The toys vary from vibrators to sleeves and bondage accessories such as nipple clamps and masks to ensure pleasure for all parties.
2. Light up their eyes with lingerie.
Sexy lingerie can get a lover all hot and bothered, but in my experience go for something straight forward and uncomplicated. Spending to much time getting in and out of lingerie can be a total mood killer! This seven til midnight bustier set, £34.99, is a gorgeous set to get pulses going, hugs your curves in all the right places, quick to get into and even quicker to get off!
3. Kinky Rewards
Reward each other with these lucky him and her scratch cards! Birthdays, Christmas and whenever you fancy really, gift your partner with a scratch card where an action, location and time is chosen and you have to honour the scratch card!
4. There is nothing wrong with safe sex.
There is no such thing as accidents or unplanned pregnancy, the moment you decide to have sex without any form of contraception , you are choosing to have a child. I have been in many situations in previous relationships where the guy claims “It’s not as good” or “i can’t feel anything” whilst yes it may not feel as good going skin to skin but sex with a condom can still be very pleasurable! There are so many different types of condoms on the market, different textures and flavours, even latex free condoms for those with allergies like myself.
Using flavoured condoms and lubes can make oral activities more exciting, expanding your bedroom activities.
Change up the scenery and have a night away! Book a hotel room for a night or weekend to spend some quality time together to explore and enjoy each other’s company.
I hope you find these tips and ideas helpful in spicing up your relationship!